08 - Love Yourself Like Your Dog Does
50 Years, 50 Lessons
Lesson 8: Love Yourself Like Your Dog Does
Dogs embody unconditional love. Asking for only care and companionship, dogs are the full package of connection.
My dogs are my biggest fans. I wake up? Thrilled. I get dressed? Thrilled. Put shoes on? Thrilled. Make a tea? Thrilled. Leashes out? Super thrilled. Car ride? Mostly thrilled. Leave the house without them? Maybe not so thrilled, but come home? THRILLED.
No human can or does love me the way they do.
Provided you have the means and the ability, having pets is a great idea. Raising kids with pets is an even better idea. Kids need to learn early how to be kind, loving, caring, and what unconditional love feels like. Those experiences are hard for kids to come by, but pets make it so.
I have previously blogged on the benefits of animals in our lives, and on how they structure our routines, can make us more active, and add health benefits to our homes. They provide companionship when we are alone, even if we are just feeling that way.
Having pets resting at my feet, greeting me at my doorstep, lying on my bedroom floor, and looking out my windows just sprinkles me with joy all day. I know I cope better, smile more, and are calmer with them around.
In business, dogs change the entire vibe of an office or workplace. My gym has a dog – Thor. I go to see him just as much as I go to workout. If I enter an office or establishment that has dogs or cats, its an instant connection. An immediate talking point.
Business owners form lives that work around their families – pets included. Work from home because of the dog? Take the dog with you? Use the dog in your marketing? I have done all of the above.
Pets and business have a lot in common:
They are a commitment. Like all decisions, don’t overstretch yourself.
Budget accordingly. Have emergency cash because you might need it.
Plan your days to fit in what is important. Getting the dog out should be on that list.
Have a strategy. Pick the pet or dog that fits your lifestyle and your goals.
Get buy-in. Don’t expect people to show up for your decisions. Make decisions with those that are impacted by the outcome.
Lead with kindness. Most pets (and people) just want others to be happy with them. Be careful with the hearts you lead.
Show love and appreciation. A pat on the head can go a long way.
Your turn:
Does your pet go to work with you? In one sentence, how does that make you feel?
To All: Thank you for being on this journey with me – past, present, and future.
Julie
